To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don't need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself. When you accept yourself you feel radiant. Radiance comes from a woman knowing and owning her truth. When you love yourself, you maintain your radiance with self care.

12 Ways to Be Your Own Best Friend

By Kristin Layne | May 24, 2022

We can learn to be our own best friend. If we do, we have a friend for life. We can buoy ourselves up, give ourselves comfort and sustenance when there is no one else. ~ Mildred Newman & Bernard Berkowitz 12 Ways to Be Your Own Best Friend The longest relationship you will ever have in the history of your life is with yourself. Therefore, it’s up to you to labor over and cultivate the strength and depth of connection you have with yourself. 1. Praise yourself, rather than waiting for others to do it for you. When you do something you are proud of, dwell on it a little, praise yourself for it, relish the experience, take it in. 2. Realize that you are fundamentally worthy. Most of us equate failures in our lives with us personally being failures. We need to remember that if we outsource our self-worth …

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The Embodiment of Self Love

By Kristin Layne | January 11, 2022

Happy New Year!! Welcome to 2022!  Did you know that the spiritual meaning of 222 is all about BALANCE, MANIFESTING MIRACLES and SEIZING NEW OPPORTUNITIES. When you see 222, allow it to remind you to keep the faith and stay true to your personal truths. In this life, there are no accidents. Everything happens for a reason. One of the greatest lessons I’ve learned is to be grateful that I didn’t end up with what I wanted. The Universe has your back even when things don’t work out the way you planned.  On New Year’s Eve I announced on my FB page that my family might be a lil extra excited for the New Year, in March we will be welcoming a new baby boy to our family. He is truly a MIRACLE. On March 18th, 2019, I was 10 weeks pregnant with my 3rd child when I began spotting …

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Fall in love with yourself!

By Kristin Layne | October 7, 2021

SELF-LOVE VS. SELF-CARE: DO YOU KNOW THE DIFFERENCE? There’s no escaping the self-love/self-care movement! It’s easy to get them confused and intertwine their meanings. Both are there to essentially improve your life, but knowing how and when to use each one can is key. It’s so important that we take care of ourselves and ensure our lives are well rounded, fulfilled, and serve us. Not just doing what’s expected of us. We’re living in a time where we have quick, easy access to almost anything! This has seen our generation has become quite consumed with ‘stuff’ and the materialistic pleasures in life. However, rarely do they provide true happiness and even if they do, it’s short-lived.  Self-love and self-care can often cost very little, if anything at all! Self-love is “regard for one’s well-being and happiness.” You want to ensure your own cup is full, and that what it’s full of …

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Align your Hair care with the Cosmos!

By Kristin Layne | September 11, 2021

Nature is not only what is found on the ground, but also that which is above us. Lifting our eyes to the sky , there is a powerful and mysterious force that watches over the life of mankind and nature: THE MOON. The moon has an effect on plantings and harvest. It determines the ebb and flow of the tides. It even has an effect on births. It’s also known to enhance hair growth and beauty. Just as the moon pulls the tides in the ocean, it pulls upon all bodies of water: This causes moisture to rise on earth, which encourages growth. It is this upward movement of water, cued by the moon, that is at the root of lunar hair care. After all, humans are made up mostly of water—and it makes up approximately 10 to 13% of our hair. Getting a scalp detox treatment, for example, in …

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How to have Radiant Self-Confidence like a Goddess!

By Kristin Layne | August 12, 2021

Confidence is an inside job. Real, true, deep and lasting confidence cannot be attained by doing something on the outside or by getting lots of compliments and being liked by others. Sure, this might make you feel better about yourself temporarily, but as soon as the high wears off, if your confidence is not deeply rooted, then you’re gonna go back to feeling insecure waiting for the next person or achievement to lift you up. The key to having radiant self-confidence like a Goddess is to develop a positive relationship with yourself. Everything on the outside stems from the relationship you have with yourself. The extent to which you are able to forgive others depends on the extent to which you are able to forgive yourself. The extent to which you are able to love others depends on the extent to which you are able to love yourself. The extent …

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Celebrate Yourself!

By Kristin Layne | July 6, 2021

You are Amazing!! Take a moment to celebrate yourself! You deserve it! It’s almost become normal to punish ourselves while we’re in pursuit of our goals with negative thoughts like “I’m not there yet” or “It’s not perfect”. We need to flip the script on those self-defeating thoughts and learn to celebrate the small wins. Take a moment right now, celebrate how far you’ve come. You are doing an awesome job at life (even if you don’t feel like it). Stop waiting for the major monthly holidays and learn to celebrate yourself daily. I love this quote by Oprah Winfrey: “The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate.” The reality is that we live in a fast-paced world. We are taught that “accomplishment” means getting as much done in a day as you possibly can. However, too many of us don’t take …

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The Power of Gratitude Shifts Everything

By Kristin Layne | June 1, 2021

I totally manifested this move! For months I spoke about my dream of having a bigger house, a separate space for my business, for my kids to have their own room and more space for our beloved Hero. I was clear on, in my journaling every morning, about this dream of the specific things I wanted for my family.  I wasn’t clear on when or how this would happen, but I knew the Universe heard my request and my job is to always stay in the vibrations of joy and gratitude so the Universe can get to work.  DID SHE EVER!!!  On April 13th, I was on a zoom call with a friend and “the dream” came up in the conversation, after I logged off, I received an email from our property manager that the owner of our house had decided to sell and we would need to be out by the …

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8 Self-Care Activities to Connect with Your Inner Child

By Kristin Layne | March 11, 2021

The Inner Child has been a theme in my life the last few weeks, I watched a class about healing the inner child, participated in a couple evenings of play with my fellow sisters, playing games and connecting to our inner little girl.  What is an Inner Child? Not everyone is in touch with their inner child. Often, when people connect with their inner child, it’s because they’re dealing with a problem rooted in an early wounding. Even if your inner child is healthy and happy, there is a part of you that feels and reacts to life the way a child does. Everyone experiences this. The challenge is to know, accept, and connect with that part of your personality. According to the Cambridge Dictionary, “Your inner child is the part of your personality that still reacts and feels like a child.” As we get older we sometimes forget about …

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By Kristin Layne | January 13, 2021

Happy New Year! Welcome to 2021! Whether you had the best year of your life, or the worst in 2020, setting New Year’s resolutions can feel like a positive way to set goals and start fresh in 2021. Many people set fitness goals, career objectives, or financial targets as New Year’s resolutions. However, this year, I challenge you to drop all New Year’s resolutions from your mind and focus on self-care intentions instead. Living a balanced, happy life starts with taking care of yourself. Think about it. Without self-love, can you genuinely enjoy hitting your target weight or your raise? What do these accomplishments mean to you if you feel burned out and stressed deep down? By setting an intention of self-care for 2021, you’ll shift your focus from external desires to authentic, internal joy. Plus, when you prioritize your individual needs, I bet you’ll feel even more grateful when …


7 Tips for Holiday Selfcare

By Kristin Layne | December 14, 2020

If I know one thing, it is that the holidays can be an extremely stressful time of year. However, the thought of not being able to celebrate the holidays and do all of the traditional things we know and love is extremely gut wrenching to most, bringing up intense emotions because things are just different right now and we have to embrace this season the best way we know how. As I always say, it’s most important that we fill our cup up first.  I think most of these are important every day of the year, but with all the added stress of 2020, they seem to be just an extra bit more relevant than usual. Also, sometimes you just need to be reminded of simple things like these. 1. Take Some Time For Yourself I love my morning routine and enjoy how peaceful it makes me feel. I try to do most of …

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